I have run a few websites in the past
my issues were running a top 100 website that was politically polarized
one of the few things that I have never have found on the web is how to run a website with that much traffic
talked to the sysadmin of dig.com one day about the topic...
I agreed with him on what we had learned
turns out that you can learn a huge amount in a 30 second elevator ride
and also, thank you dig.com for the computer monitor I am using at the moment.
ok, fine, it was not learning, it was verification
so my comment here is that if you don't have physical control of your server, you are trusting someone else to do a good job.
and it is kind of sad how often they seem to mess up.
I hope you keep a backup of this site
I have seen others loose hundreds of websites all at once...
I feel sorry for them, what a way to loose your job.