Sac, the only dumb question is the unasked one.
Radio waves are simply the same thing as light waves and travel at the same speed. The only real difference is the energy contained in the photons that make up the waves. Sound is a mechanical disturbance of the medium and is WAY slower, as well as being unable to travel in vacuum (like space.) If they weren't different, we could not communicate with satellites in space, since there's no air to carry the sound.
So far as the antenna question goes, you can visualize it (tho' highly inaccurate) as the radio wave in the antenna has no place to go when it gets to the end, so it escapes by jumping off the side. For now, that's the best visualization I can come up with. As you go further into the theory, you should be able to get a grip on the reality of radiation off the antenna.